Anywhere in the world you may end up in, chances are, you will meet someone who is not tolerant of differences. Someone who has unreasonable hatred or fear of someone who is perceived to be different. Despite knowing that, though, it still shocks the hell out of me whenever I am faced with someone who judges people based on the color of their skin, the language that they speak and/or the the slant of their eyes.
The latest experience I had was last July 21 while buying Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows at Buecher Bruckmann in Main Taunus Zentrum.
There was a crowd of people (among them a group of 3 19 year old boys) standing around what was left of the newly-released HP books. I picked one book out and opened it to check if it was really in English and not in German. I heard someone beside me snicker and say something that sounded like Ching Chang. And just as I was ready to walk away, one of the boys tapped me on my shoulder. With a condescending loud tone and in his heavily accented German-English (yes, I am being mean now!), he asked me if I knew that the book was in English and that I would probably not understand anything.
I am a 32-year old mother of two. I usually do not let young idiots bother me just because they wanted to look superior. But that day, I was pissed.
So… in my best American accent (thanks to years of watching Hollywood! hehe), I answered loudly with, “judging from the way you speak English, mine is a lot better than yours.” And with a smile, I walked a way.
I do not really recommend answering the way I did. But saying what I did felt good at that time.
What would you have done?
4 Responses to “A Touch of Xenophobia and Harry Potter”
I guess I would’ve called them Mutterbumsers. Of course, that’s just me! And you’re right, there’s nothing gained by sinking to their level.
Well, that’s life really. My friends who are on assignment in Japan occasionally face discrimination, especially given that Japan, dessite the cosmopolitan facade, is a pretty homogenous society and reeks of xenophobia in the rural areas.
We just have to take it in stride and try to correct misconceptions in a polite, decent, and maybe humorous manner.
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ha ha ha!!! nai-imagine kita doing just that. i would have done the same basta hindi ako ma-speechless sa galit. ha ha!
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